To me, 2021 was the year of flow. And it’s strange because I entered this year not knowing what would happen. This was the first year in my life where I couldn’t plan a single thing because we were in the thick of a global pandemic. I didn’t have a clue who I’d be by the end of the year. And this was obviously scary.
In hindsight though, I did something incredible. I leaned into uncertainty, and I chose to welcome it with open arms. One thing that I did know for certain, was that I wanted to transcend beyond who I previously was. I didn’t want to be the girl that I once was. So do you know what I did? I took things day by day. I made sure that I was living in the present moment, eager to absorb all the gems that I would have previously missed. I made sure that I didn’t take the mundane for granted. I celebrated every small step. I was grateful for the day itself, and I was grateful for every step that I took to add to my day. I was grateful for the baggage that I was able to drop, and I was grateful for the blessings that
2021 was the year in which everything clicked for me. I was able to heal from my past wounds and through my healing, I realized that my pain was transformed into a currency that I could use to empower and support other struggling souls. I was particularly fascinated by that — as I initially did not intend on starting my healing journey for that reason. I started my healing journey so that I could show up in the world as a better me.
Needless to say, I had a lot of magical moments this year. And that all came from being open to change. Change is scary, and it’s uncomfortable, but it’s also needed. Especially as a postgrad, this is where life is just beginning. Life as a postgrad is where you are most vulnerable to those blues, so be patient with yourself, make space for stillness and focus on internal growth rather than external growth. Make room to receive, make room to explore and make room to experience. Remember, we are still in a pandemic, so make space for flow, not rigidity.
I’d say, go to places where you feel celebrated, loved, and accepted. Allow yourself to meet people who see you for who you are, and embrace you with open arms. A lot of my past wounds come from the fact that I was surrounded by people who didn’t hold my best interest at heart. Through this year, I learned that I am worthy of the highest form of love. The most nourishing form. And that’s what brought healing to my heart. And that’s what allowed my year to flow. If you are around toxic people, reconsider that and allow yourself to start fresh. Solitude is far better than toxicity. The solitude - and investing in yourself allows you to show up better in all areas of your lives.
